Tag Archives: choice

Priorities, Values, and Authenticity

What are your priorities, really? It’s an honest question, to which we often provide less-than-honest answers. If we were 100% truthful about our actual priorities (the things we actively pursue and attend to), we might not actually like ourselves so…


Complaining Doesn’t Create Change

You can either change or stay the same, but you can’t do both. And if you want to create change in your life – if you want something to change – you have to become a participant in making it…


It’s All About You (even when it isn’t)

If you think something you read online is about you, it probably is – even if it isn’t. Let me explain. Over the weekend, I posted some words about truth and wisdom. Then this morning, I shared how incongruent it…


The Law of Karma and Wishing Harm on Others

When is it ok to wish ill on someone? Well, the short answer is: never. And the long answer is: Really, NEVER. It’s never ok to wish harm on anyone else. If you do, you’re actually inviting that bad energy…


We Don’t Have Three Feet

We don’t have three feet – so it’s time to stop acting like we do. I run into this all the time with clients, friends, family, acquaintances  – even in the mirror. We seem to think we have three feet……


The Importance of Simple Pleasures

Like many people I know, over the last month I have felt emotionally inundated with one shocking headline story after another. My sympathetic nervous system felt under attack, and I needed to do something about it. It’s the old “oxygen…


Happy Accidents

Accidents happen, and rarely do we call them “happy.” Then something comes along to change that and suddenly they become ‘Happy Accidents.’ But we never know they’re actually “happy” until after the fact.  This is a simple truth about a…