Tag Archives: desire

The Myth of Desire

If you have to chase, it, convince it, coerce it, or con it… it’s not for you. This is one of life’s simple truths. Is it always true? Of course there are exceptions. There are exceptions to everything. But the…


Speaking to Joy

Recently, I was speaking with a client that is venturing into the online dating world, and this came out of my mouth: Find someone who speaks to your joy, not your fears. So often in life we look for a…


If this, then that…

Why is it that we’ve been programmed to delay happiness? Think about it for a second. Do you have the thought pattern anywhere ingrained in you that says: “If I do/acquire/reach a certain thing/level – I will then be happy.”…